October 19, 2019

5 Crucial Things You Need To Know About Life Envy

5 Crucial Things You Need To Know About Life Envy

I had a smart and successful client use a fabulous phrase with me last week during our Happiness Hacking™ coaching session.We were discussing the downer she had got on at the weekend seeing perfect families out walking with their perfect children, which felt super painful because she is currently single. All totally understandable. It’s like rubbing salt into the wound when you see people effortlessly living that which seems so elusive to you.

It’s often the way, isn’t it? If we are single, all we see are perfect couples walking along hand in hand. Every Cafe is overrun with them. If we are trying to conceive and struggling, then the world seems to be full of women sporting baby bumps at every turn, and every other Facebook photo is of someone else’s child. If our job is less than stellar or our business is struggling, then all of a sudden the world seems filled with people making great money doing what they love when we can’t even work out what our passion is, let alone earn a living doing it!

Any of that sound familiar?!

My client said she was suffering from a severe case of “Life Envy”, and I think that’s something that most of us can relate to.

Here’s what you a) need to know about Life envy, and b) need to do about it.

1. Life Envy can be POSITIVE. It can be an awesome force for good in that it can help you identify what you want in your life. That clarity is great. Once the goal is set, however, its purpose is done. You don’t need the Life Envy anymore; you just need to get busy making that goal a happening thing rather than dwell on what you don’t have.

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